Destination weddings have a rep. And not always the good kind. You’ve heard it all:
- “They’re way too expensive.”
- “Only influencers do that.”
- “It’s a nightmare to plan.”
- “Your guests won’t come.”
And maybe you’ve even started to believe it. But I’m here, cape metaphorically on, to swoop in and set the record straight. As a certified travel advisor and IT project manager (aka logistics wizard), I’ve planned enough group trips and destination weddings to confidently say: most of those scary myths? Total nonsense.
Let’s dive into the biggest myths about destination weddings—and the truth that might just have you saying yes to your best yes yet.
Myth #1: Destination Weddings Are Way More Expensive
The Truth: They’re often less expensive than traditional weddings.
You might be picturing a six-figure bash on a private island—but most couples save money with destination weddings thanks to:
- Smaller guest lists
- All-inclusive wedding packages
- Built-in perks like honeymoon suites, spa treatments, or welcome parties
- Group discounts and negotiated rates (especially when you work with someone like me 😎)
Bonus: Resorts often offer complimentary wedding packages if you book a certain number of nights.
Myth #2: It’s Too Hard to Plan From Far Away
The Truth: Not if you have the right team.
Yes, you’ll be coordinating from a distance—but that’s where I come in. I manage:
- Guest communications
- Travel logistics
- Room blocks
- Vendor coordination with on-site teams
- Last-minute changes (because there will be a few)
Think of me as your behind-the-scenes wedding ninja. You make the decisions, I make the magic happen.
Myth #3: Your Guests Won’t Come
The Truth: They’ll be thrilled to turn your wedding into a vacation.
Sure, not everyone will make it—but most guests jump at the chance for a built-in getaway. Especially when:
- The destination is affordable and easy to access
- They get payment plans and early notice
- There’s a clear itinerary and help with travel planning (which, hey—again, is where I shine!)
And let’s be honest: if Aunt Karen wasn’t going to be cool at the open bar, maybe it’s better this way.
Myth #4: All-Inclusive Means Cookie Cutter
The Truth: Most resorts let you personalize every detail.
I work with properties that go above and beyond to make your wedding feel like you. You can customize:
- Menu and cocktails
- Decor and floral designs
- Ceremony location (beach, gazebo, rooftop, garden, over-the-water… the list goes on)
- Private events and excursions
Your wedding won’t just be gorgeous. It’ll be yours.
Myth #5: It’s Only for Young Couples or Influencers
The Truth: Destination weddings are for everyone.
Whether you’re:
- Renewing your vows
- Blending families
- Celebrating a second (or third) marriage
- Hosting a multi-generational family celebration
A destination wedding can be elegant, laid-back, grand, intimate—or all of the above.
Myth #6: You’ll Have Less Control
The Truth: You’ll have more clarity with fewer decisions to stress over.
Instead of juggling 14 vendor meetings and DIY projects, you get to focus on big-picture choices. I’ll handle the rest.
Bonus? You still get all the fun stuff: choosing the playlist, designing your bouquet, tasting signature drinks (even if it’s over Zoom).
Why This Matters:
The goal of a destination wedding isn’t just to have a beautiful day—it’s to have a beautiful experience. The travel, the setting, the quality time with your favorite people. When you plan it the right way (with an expert by your side), it becomes a memory-making machine.
As your travel advisor, I’m not just your booking agent. I’m your group coordinator, timeline whisperer, and budget protector.
Let’s ditch the myths and design the wedding that actually reflects you.